One of my biggest fears in life is for people to think of me as a bad person, or simply that I am a bad person. I’m constantly scared that people will think I lack manners or have bad opinions or that I do nasty things. It’s selfish but it’s true. I don’t want anyone to hate me and I just want to be nice to people. I want to make people happy and feel good about themselves and I don’t know how to cope when I find out I’m treating someone the wrong way. It’s the main reason I can’t cope and seem to be narcissistic or self-absorbed when someone has a problem with me. I hate the thought of someone properly suffering because I’ve done wrong.